On looking for love in the wrong places:

Sometimes, we (people in general) see something we desire, like say a fire. We get closer to it, enjoy it’s warmth, and bask in the light of it. And we watch the wood burn and the flames dance, and we want to dance with the flames. Some people forget sometimes that you can’t dance with the fire, and they try to cut in, and they get burned.

It’s the ones that remember that you can’t dance with the fire but stay in the warmth that will probably find their dancing partner when someone else comes along to bask in the light of the fire as well.